Learn From Mistakes
A mistake is when someone makes a bad decision resulting in a negative outcome. A “mistake” does not include a deliberate act of malice or insubordination.
So when a well-intentioned employee makes a mistake consider the following coaching steps (LEARN acronym):
Listen—allow the employee to tell the entire story and express his or her feelings.
Evaluate—encourage the employee to self-evaluate the bad decision and coach for future improvement.
Agree—come to a mutual understanding about how future similar situations might be handled.
Recognize—if the employee took a calculated risk or initiative, be sure to recognize and reinforce those positive behaviors.
Notice Need—try to determine what the individual may need to hear from you so he or she can move forward with only a bruised ego and not a destroyed ego.